Funeral Celebrant
Funeral Celebrant
Around 50% of the funerals held at Crematoria are now Civil Funerals, presided over by a Funeral Celebrant
A Civil Funeral is a celebration of the life of a loved one, entirely driven by your wishes, memories and values. The beliefs and ideology of the celebrant are irrelevant. It is not a religious ceremony, but it can include some religious elements if you would like to include them. It allows you much greater flexibility to create something very personal in style and content. The celebrant's job is to assist you in creating it, and guide you through the ceremony on the day.
Funeral Celebrant is a formal term applied to members of a group of non-clergy professionals who are committed to preparing and delivering high quality funeral ceremonies. These ceremonies are not linked to any religion or to belief in an after-life. The objective is to celebrate the life of the individual who has died. This can be done through readings, recollections, songs, prayers and hymns - even pictures and video; in effect anything that friends and family think would recognize and mark the passing of someone very special to them.
Celebrants work hard alongside funeral directors and funeral venues (usually a crematorium) to assist in making one of the most difficult days of your life a little more bearable.
Why choose Jonathan as your Celebrant?
Why choose Jonathan as your Celebrant?
Having spent 30 years as a broadcaster, I know what a difference the right words can make. I have worked for many major media companies (including BBC, Channel 4 and ITN) and multinational corporations (from Jaguar Land Rover to Lloyds of London) interviewing Presidents and Prime Ministers among others. Whether on-air or on stage I have a wealth of experience of live events.
Over that time, I've come to realise that I want the words I speak to be of importance. There can be no more important prose than the tribute used to sum up and celebrate someone's life. So in 2016 I chose to train as a Funeral Celebrant and use my experience to make a difference to those who are dealing with one of the most difficult days of their lives.
I am a fully qualified Funeral Celebrant with an NOCN Level 3 Diploma in Funeral Celebrancy. I am also an Associate of the Institute of Civil Funerals (IoCF).
You can keep in touch with the latest news and further information on funerals on my Facebook page: @thefuneralcelebrant
To contact me, please email me via jon@funeralcelebrant.life
What is a Civil Funeral?
What is a Civil Funeral?
A good funeral may seem like a contradiction in terms, but you are likely to have attended both good and bad funerals and understand what is meant by such a tautology. . There is such a thing as a good funeral and it should be as unique as the person who lived the life you are celebrating. A Civil Funeral allows far greater flexibility to celebrate that life, by placing none of the restrictions on you that a more traditional ceremony may require.
In fact, there is no requirement to have a funeral when someone dies. However, every culture and creed has held a ceremony to mark someone's passing since the earliest times. In essence, they have no practical value, but they say a lot about how we value the living, and perhaps why famous or important people often have very lavish funerals, while a criminal might have none at all.
Some people regard funerals as pointless. When Arthur Miller, the playwright, was asked if he would be going to the funeral of his ex-wife Marilyn Monroe, he replied "Why should I? She won't be there." However for most people, it's not the body that is important, but the person whom it embodied and vitality of the life that animated it. Increasingly people are looking to mark or celebrate that life in a myriad of different ways.
A Civil Ceremony gives you the widest possible opportunity to celebrate in a way that either you or your loved ones feel is most appropriate. You could dress in a style that is appropriate to that person, no black - instead pink or red maybe? Each attendee can bring something that links you to the person, a gift, a card or photograph perhaps? You can include readings and songs that they loved and even video too.
For most people a funeral will be something deeply upsetting and full of grief. Some may even find it frightening or morbid. How you feel, will depend on a number of factors, such as your relationship to the person who died, the circumstances of their death, how old they were, and your expectations of the event. A Civil Celebrant will not only understand that, but also assist you to find the right way for you to mark the passing of someone special. A qualified celebrant will spend time talking to you and other relatives. They will ensure they are as familiar with your loved one as possible and tell their story accurately, with compassion and feeling.
The aftermath of someone's death isn't always the best time to be logical. You may need to let your emotions catch up with what has happened. However it is very likely that you will want to have a way of saying goodbye officially. You may see it as a gift to the person who has died, as a time to express sorrow or allow others to comfort each other. You may want to say thank you to that person and take stock of what they meant to you and others, and more importantly what they will go on meaning.
For whatever reason you wish to hold a funeral, a Civil Ceremony will allow the width and breadth of those feelings to be recognised. It gives you the freedom to mark their passing in a way which means the most to those present, and includes the wishes of the person they have come to say farewell to.